only half the problem is my lack of a clue

we chose the chapel in the woods (i think).

what this means, of course, is that the dirt/mud factor will be a consideration for the getting-to-the-chapel portion of our program. for those of you less clueless than i, does this mean i should choose a dress without a train, or maybe even shorter? help!!!

also, seems that the plan is to hold the ceremony outside,

unless it rains the day of. in that case, we’ll take out the pews (?) and have a standing room only ceremony in the chapel.

what i think this means, practically speaking, is that i’ve got to be prepared for two totally different ambiences, right? the outdoor, sunny, flowery, nature-chick one. OR the indoor, cozy (cramped?), candlelit, romanticy-woodsy one. do you guys think that’s a big deal, having something that important decided really and truly at the last minute? do tell. . . .