only half the problem is my lack of a clue

um, yeah, i’ve had my “save the dates have gone out” post ready to go for like, a zillion years now, but we’ve had a few setbacks recently (problems choosing the right paper, disagreements about style issues — frogboy has excellent taste AND is by profession someone who, you know, designs things, so i tend to defer a whole lot in this area, but we had a few small disagreements nonetheless).  today (AS WE SPEAK) frogboy is at the paper store, trying to talk them into a discount.  this was originally my job, but i really really don’t like this sort of job, and i told frogboy that it would probably go something like this:

futurefroggie:  um, hi.  um, i wanna buy like LOTS of this kind of paper.  um, how much would that cost?

grumbly french salesperson:  that would cost the price that’s marked, you know, times the quantity you wanted.

futurefroggie:  um, ok, thanks!

so frogboy’ll do it.  and tonight we plan to start printing them, and then we will . . . MAIL them!  yes, it’s true.  and according to martha (my mom just sent me a care package with wedding magazines galore, thanks mom!), we’re still within the time range (mid-october for a end-of-may wedding), so i am incredibly proud of myself.

photos tomorrow!